Don’t let your dream wait, Derrick Freeland says
By: ESSENCE PERKINS
Feb 22, 2021
Derrick Freeland is a motivational speaker whose presentation at Â鶹´«Ã½ came during Black History Month.
Success
comes from good decisions, good decisions come from experience and experience
comes from bad decisions, a motivational speaker said.
Derrick
Freeland, 25, began his Black History Month sessions at Â鶹´«Ã½ University via
Zoom on Feb. 16. His speech was titled “The Process Over the Product.”
He told the audience that
he loved them all, which came before telling
people they must use failure and adversity to move forward to success.
Success
in life is not what you acquire, Freeland said. “It’s who you become in life.”
Freeland,
a talented athlete from an impoverished background in southeast Washington,
D.C., had two dreams: to make his mother proud and to be successful. He saw
professional football as Plan A and an opportunity
to reach both goals.
He
told his story of being a scholarship player at The Citadel before he suffered a brain injury playing football,
one so serious that he stuttered and was advised to delay his education.
“I
was damaged,” Freeland said. “I felt like I was a failure.”
He
said he even tried to end his life.
His
definition of success had to change. “Plan A was out the window.”
The start
of his Plan B came with him looking at a
mentor’s formula for success: “Success comes from a
series of good decisions.”
When
failure happens, don’t quit, Freeland said. Face adversity. “On the other side of that is greatness.”
Freeland
faced adversity with the end of his dream to play pro football. “It changed my whole entire life.”
He
had to turn the negative into a positive, finding a new dream, a new definition
of success. And he did, today being a motivational speaker with appearances
nationally and internationally.
Freeland
asked students to address where their dreams will take them. “Your dream is something you need to give to
the world.”
Run
to fear, he advised. Attack adversity. Move to success. Go after your dream.
“You
can do it as long as your first believe it.”
Don’t be
lazy, he said.
Change your way of thinking. Don’t let your dream wait.
“It’s
going to take some courage” to get to the dream. Your future is counting on
you.
Remember,
there are two
important moments in life: when you are born and when you discover why you were
born, Freeland said. Don’t be a person
with regret for not following through on your dream.
Freeland
ended with his concept of the four P’s of life:
Pain
– figure it out
Purpose
Passion
Profit